{"id":15972,"date":"2020-10-17T08:22:00","date_gmt":"2020-10-17T14:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.themoehrings.com\/?p=15972"},"modified":"2020-10-20T08:23:47","modified_gmt":"2020-10-20T14:23:47","slug":"remember","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.themoehrings.com\/index.php\/2020\/10\/remember","title":{"rendered":"Remember"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Thanks to Oct 15th being pregnancy and infant loss remembrance day, more people are aware of just how many of their friends and family are hurting.<\/div>\n
But here’s a suggestion, don’t wait until Oct 15th of next year to check on them again, even if they look like they are doing ok. Grief doesn’t wait until a designated day. It doesn’t go away just because we have a day to recognize it. It doesn’t actually ever go away, we just get better at dealing with it.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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8 pregnancies, 3 babies.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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If you need to cry with me, I’m here. It is ok, it is healthy, it is necessary.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Thanks to Oct 15th being pregnancy and infant loss remembrance day, more people are aware of just how many of their friends and family are hurting. But here’s a suggestion, don’t wait until Oct 15th of next year to check on them again, even if they look like they are doing ok. Grief doesn’t wait…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15973,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[245],"tags":[125,228,3101],"class_list":["post-15972","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-becca-2","tag-grieve","tag-miscarriage","tag-remembrance","wpcat-245-id"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/s504YJ-remember","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":10083,"url":"https:\/\/www.themoehrings.com\/index.php\/2017\/10\/oct-15","url_meta":{"origin":15972,"position":0},"title":"Oct 15","author":"Becca","date":"October 10, 2017","format":false,"excerpt":"Since Oct 15th is on a Sunday this year, I asked my pastor if I could share a little bit and he said yes. 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